Sam can be a bit physical with Tilly but I often catch him being really sweet with her too. She was laying on the floor and Sam went and cuddled up with her and is watching a movie. Pretty sweet.
Tilly has adopted our old brown chair. It sits in front of our big sliding glass door/window. She will sit on it looking over the arm rest and watch our neightbors. You will also often find her sleeping in it.